|Posted by Nicole Lanning on December 30, 2011 at 8:35 AM|
I have received quite a few emails from clients asking if I could do a healing tip of the day on this topic. Healing from abusive parents is something that many people out in the world are dealing with in their life right now. When I say abusive parents, this can mean a variety of abusive forms from emotional, physical, and mental abuse. In my book, abuse is abuse and that is that. There is no reason for it as we are all human beings and should be treated with respect.
With that being said, there are many parents in the world however that are not at that point in their life yet. Maybe it is because they had a hard life growing up and they never saw the pattern to change it, maybe it is because they themselves need to expand their own awareness and ask for forgiveness and help. No matter what the background is from this, you have to understand that it is not your fault and you can heal from this.
This is one area, especially since I am a parent myself of two younger children, that I make sure there is nothing that can hurt them on an emotional, mental, or physical level. I know I cannot control the world, but I can control what I say and how I act with my own children. All parents can. But most people who go seeking help from abusive parents are now teenagers or adults and they want to heal. You can go about this on many levels, as it is about correcting the damage that was done.
The first thing you need to do is know that whatever type of abuse you had to deal with that it was not your fault. The next thing that you have to do and understand is forgiveness. Forgiveness is not about allowing the person (people) to hurt you in your life, but rather to allow this energy you are holding onto within to pass on by so that you yourself can heal from this traumatic issue in your life. You are saying that yes they did things but you are no longer going to be a victim to this pain in your life anymore.
There are many ways to heal from abusive parental issues in your life. I remember at one point in my own life that I had a mentor tell me I either had to deal with the issues that were going on or had to cut all ties because you cannot control people. This is very fitting for this healing tip that I am posting today, as it rings true for many issues in your life.
For healing from abusive parents, start working on emotional releasement methods to jump start this healing process. Incorporate forgiveness healing, and a good grid cleansing session or an emotional flush for these areas. All forms of abuse effect our emotional side, as that is why you are still dealing with the issues today as they left scars for you to heal, and this can be tackled with some healing methods so that you can let go and move onward and forward with a positive pathway in life!
Author: Nicole Lanning founder of Healing Art Forms online distant healing center offering healing from abusive parents sessions, abuse/trauma healing sessions, and childhood trauma releasement, along with ther modalitites for reiki healing, energy healing, spiritual healing, and psychic healing methods.